Perhaps
the least stressful, most relaxing way to celebrate the holidays
is with an Open House for your friends, family, neighbors,
coworkers, and all the people that are important in your
life. The concept of an open house is a party without a set
schedule of events, where guests can stop in at their convenience
and stay as long as they wish. The dress for a holiday open
house is usually somewhere between semi-formal and casual
so that your guests will feel comfortable and relaxed - ready
to celebrate this wonderful time of the year together!
INVITATIONS
If
you want to give the guests a sneak preview of the wonderful
delectables that will be available at your open house, send
out one of our Holiday
Printed Invitations to whet their appetites!
Attach a small candy cane to the invitation for a special treat
that they don't have to wait for!
Some people prefer to send out unique, homemade invitations.
If you are one of those creative people, use a black felt-tip
marker to print the details of the party on a bright red Glass
Christmas ornament. These will need to be packaged in a small
box and sent or hand delivered to make sure nothing gets broken!
Another
adorable idea is to send a pair of woolly mittens out as
an invitation. Attach a note with ribbon stating that guests
should come and warm up with friends during this special
season.
Include a little fun into whatever invitation you choose by
adding some Confetti in the envelope.
DECORATIONS
The
great thing about entertaining in your home around the holidays
is that you can show off all of your seasonal decorating
that you have already done! Almost everyone does some form
of decorating in their homes for the holidays, so just a few
special touches can add big impact to the already festive atmosphere!
Be prepared to give tours of your home. Be sure that if you
are the one giving the tours that you have someone else on
duty to greet guests. Your home will be festive for your
party if you have all your Christmas
decorations out, and your tree trimmed. Add a few other touches,
and you'll be set! Light lots of candles (use
both votives, and varying sizes of tapers) to give a romantic
glow to all your rooms. Light scented
candles in the bathrooms. Simmer pot pourri, so the whole
house smells as inviting as it looks. Fresh
Flowers and Winter Plants also are among my favorite decorating
tools, because they add color and bring good, fresh scents, as
well as positive feng shui, by bringing the energy of life into
a living space. If you are decorating a large or high ceilinged
area, or want to make any area look more intimate and festive,
drape and swag some gossamer across
ceilings, walls, and the edges of table skirting. Twist two colors
together for a stunning look. The gossamer drapes so beautifully,
that if your room is softly lit, it will have an ethereal glow…just
the right look for a night of dreams and hopes for a happy future!
The most traditional and popular colors for the Christmas
season are, of course, red and green. We suggest that with
these colors, you choose a specific theme to center all of
your party decorations around. Some of these themes would be:
• North Pole Enchantment
• Old Fashioned Christmas
• Arctic Fun
• Peppermint and Candy Canes
• Gingerbread Men
• Snowmen Although it is not absolutely necessary, the most effective
decorating would be done around one of these themes or a blended
combination of two of them. We recommend that you try not to
get carried away by using one or two items from each theme,
even though it is tempting! You will have the biggest impact
on your guests by keeping it simple and coordinated! And,
if
you have the funds available, a really nice idea is to give each
guest a small
favor related to your decorating theme as they depart. HOLIDAY
OPEN HOUSE PARTY ACTIVITIES
The whole purpose of an open house is to let your busy guests
come and go as they wish from a relaxed atmosphere within your
home. Because of this, you probably will not want to have any
planned activities that require a certain number of guests
or demand a lengthy stay to complete. Instead we suggest that
you let the natural conversations and mingling occur as much
as possible throughout the evening. You will definitely want to provide great
food, a comfortable
atmosphere, and some festive background music to add to the
ambiance of the affair. Other than that, if you wish to provide
a few extra memories to your evening, you may want to consider
one or more of the following activities:
•
Purchase several small Gifts as favors and beautifully wrap them up in
your best wrapping paper. Place them in a basket and display them in a prominent
spot in your home. Determine a "code" word that each guest must say
during their conversations in order to receive one of the gifts. Choose something
seasonal but tricky so it isn't obvious to everyone and then, as the host,
keep your listening ears open to hand deliver a present to any guest that speaks
the word!
•
Have a few Christmas word puzzles laying around for your guests to pick up
and test their clever minds! You can find many of these types of puzzles online.
•
Set up a place in your home for picture taking. Either use of our great Photo
Standees or simply place a few poinsettias near the fireplace, or place a chair
next to the Christmas Tree for you to take some family pictures of your guests.
People are always wanting just the right picture to send out in cards, or for
gifts to give to family members - so be ready to provide just the right location
for that unforgettable shot!
•
Place a large jar of Christmas
candy on a table near the front door and have
each guest write down how many pieces they think are in the jar. At the end
of the party, whoever is still around and guessed the closest wins and gets
to take home the jar of candy.
FOOD & DRINK
The
sky is the limit when it comes to what is appropriate food
to serve for your holiday open house. But with
an open house format, guests WILL come at different times,
and there are a couple of things you can do to avoid having
them stay for the entire party (if you are expecting a large
crowd-and have limited space). You can save money, and shorten
the time that guests will stay if you limit food to serving
only light hors d'oeuvres or desserts. If you are serving a
full meal (even heavy hors d'oeuvres), they will stay and linger!
In addition, keep your beverage/bar choices very simple. Serving
hard liquor or beer will again encourage guests to stay and
linger. Instead, consider serving only soft drinks, a simple
wine, and possibly a punch or wassail. Scatter food throughout
the house. Set up food stations in different locations so that
you don't have guests jamming the dining room or the kitchen.
Desserts on the deck, hors d'oeuvres in the great room, beverages
in the kitchen, etc.
The easiest
and most simple way to entertain guests is with a buffet
line. A general rule is that everyone will not eat everything.
People normally will eat more starches and meats than vegetables and anything fried will be the first to go! Going through a
buffet line can make people feel the pressure of others behind
them, so they move along quickly and won't take huge quantities
the first time through. Remember that you will much rather
have leftovers than a sparse spread at your buffet line, but
here is a guide for you when you are estimating your food quantities
for your buffet.
For individual meats, fish, poultry:
• 5 - 6 ounces per person
• If the cuts of meat have bones in them, consider adding
more weight per person. For multiple meat meals and buffets:
• 4 - 6 ounces per person For pasta dishes:
• A pound will serve 8-10 people. For vegetables:
• With a premixed salad, estimate one handful per person.
• One head of lettuce will feed approximately 5 people,
4 medium heads will serve 15-20. For appetizers:
• Estimate about 10-12 items total per person.
• Make 3-4 of each item per person, keeping in mind that
everyone may not take all of the items. For desserts:
• Calculate one full portion of dessert per person.
• For multiple desserts, people will taste smaller portions
of each item.
• A normal cake will serve approximately 10, but 15 will
be fed if you are also serving pie. Remember that doubling and tripling recipes is something
of an art, so it is best to work small and work your way up.
You will have a much better success rate with most recipes
if you make multiple batches of a single recipe rather than
trying to multiply the quantities by 3, 4, or more. Beverages Consider having a couple of the following seasonal
beverages to fit the festive occasion:
• Eggnog (got so many
varieties to choose from, on links not enough!)
• Wassail
• Cranberry-Tangerine
Cooler
• White Hot Chocolate
• Coffee Bar - set out a few flavored liqueurs, brandy, whipped cream, and
grated chocolate. Garnish drinks with decorative ice cubes. Try using shaped
ice-cube trays, adding a little food coloring into the water, or add mint leaves
or raspberries to the water before freezing.
If you plan on setting up a basic bar, plan to have the following
on hand for every 10 adult guests:
• 1 case of beer
• 2 liters of seltzer
• 3 liters of soft drinks (diet and regular)
• 2 quarts of fruit juice
• Plenty of chilled bottled mineral water (sparkling and flat)
• 4 bottles of wine - two red, two white
• Hard liquor - a fifth makes aprox. 14 drinks
• Lemon and lime wedges and twists, olives and other garnish
• Lots of ice - plan on 1 lb. per adult guest for the evening.
Serve
up drinks in some of our fantastic Holiday
Glassware or Unique
Barware.
Throwing a successful holiday party with a buffet does not
have to throw you into a cardiac arrest! Just have fun, relax,
and enjoy the time with your many guests - they will remember
the fun and fellowship much longer than they will remember
the menu! |